Thursday, 27 April 2017

This Will Tell You If She Wants You To Be More Romantic

Relationships move – and so they should. They change as time goes by and they become deeper, more meaningful and more substantial, leaving some of the earlier characteristics they used to have behind. Unfortunately, sometimes romance is one of these things, and your girl may feel she needs you to be more romantic.

Read Her Signs That She Wants You To Be More Romantic

Oftentimes, women may feel awkward telling you what’s on their mind, preferring instead to show you what they want through their behavior. If you’re not sure how to read the signs that she needs more romance out of your relationship, we’re here to help.

Sign #1 She mentions the romantic gestures her friends’ men make. Are you tired of hearing how Jake keeps whisking Mary off on romantic holidays, or how Sarah’s boyfriend learned how to dance the tango just for her? Maybe your lady is not just casually mentioning these things to you, it could be that she’s dropping ‘hints’ that you need to follow these guys’ example.

Sign #2 She changes the subject when you talk about work. If she hastens to steer the conversation away from more mundane subjects and into more abstract ones, she is clearly trying to show you that she’s tired of this type of interaction.

Sign #3 She drags out foreplay when you’re intimate with each other. If she seems more into cuddling and kissing than sex these days, it could be that she needs you to pay closer attention to her need for romance. This is especially the case if you started out your relationship enjoying a lot of foreplay and have been limiting the time you spend on it progressively.

Sign #4 She buys herself flowers. When did you last buy her a beautiful bouquet, really? If it’s been months (please, don’t let it be years), she may be subtly asking that you start doing it again. Most guys think flowers are overpriced and a waste of money, but don’t you think she’s worth it? It doesn’t have to be a special day, like an anniversary or birthday, just surprise her with a bunch of her favorite tulips today.

Sign #5 She’s more emotional than before. Has she been crying more easily watching romantic films? Do her eyes well up when she hears random songs on the radio lately? It could be that her feeling your relationship is not romantic enough is causing her hurt and disappointment.

If you have noticed one or more of the signs mentioned above, it is time for you to realize that your relationship may not need you to make more money or buy more things, but rather for you to be more romantic and show your love through sweet acts of romance.

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Monday, 24 April 2017

What To Do If You Want Women To See You As A Classy Man

Some men love the hipster look; others love the clean-cut image of the successful professional, while for others it’s the bad boy look that works best. But if you belong to the category of men who believe there is nothing like being sophisticated, these, according to a research, are the things that make a classy man.

How Much Of A Classy Man Are You?

A research that was recently commissioned by European fashion brand Peter Hahn found that there are certain subtle things that people consider as classy. The survey was carried out on a sample of 2000 Brits and was quite revealing.

According to a spokesperson for Peter Hahn, “Projecting the essence of class successfully requires a number of factors to work harmoniously, from your dress sense to your manners to your skillset. It helps if you have read your way through a bookcase of classics or can speak a couple of languages, but if your bow tie is too sloppy or your posture too lax, your classy persona can falter.”

When it comes to appearance, the study found that wearing a clean and well-ironed white shirt and taking pride in your appearance are ingredients that show a guy has class.

Age is also a factor determining class, the survey showed. Brits believe 45 is the peak age for classiness and that men and women generally get better with age, with men having the edge on women.

One out of four Brits mentioned a dignified behavior on social media is an absolute must, along with holding the door open for others, while one out of five of them believe that knowing your wine is a clear sign of sophistication too.

These are the Top 10 signs of class, according to the study.

A classy man:

  1. Says please and thank you
  2. Is well-read
  3. Has good table manners
  4. Doesn’t swear
  5. Knows what cutlery to use
  6. Is discreet
  7. Doesn’t start eating a meal until everyone else at the table has their food
  8. Holds doors open
  9. Never drinks directly from the bottle
  10. Doesn’t use text speak

What may come as a surprise, however, is that even though the top 10 rules of class are quite straightforward, a whopping 86% of Brits said they think that, in general terms, people lack class. In fact, 36% of them were honest enough to admit to having no class themselves, with just 10% of them expressing confidence in their possession of class.

Consequently, it seems that to be a classy man is both a simple and a complex thing, just like life itself.

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Thursday, 20 April 2017

Choosing Our Partners Is Tricky, But This Explains How To Do It

If you think you are the absolute worst at picking romantic partners, you’re in good company. As it turns out, most of us are. According to the School Of Life – a philosophical school aiming to help people deal with the psychological issues of everyday life, founded by philosopher Alain De Botton – we don’t really have much say when it comes to choosing our partners.

Why We Should Blame Romanticism For Choosing Our Partners Poorly

Back in the day (and in some countries still), there were arranged marriages between people who had no other choice but to accept one another and live together. With the prevalence of romanticism, however, things took a different turn. The idea that there is a special someone out there who is perfect for us and we will recognize them as such the moment we lay eyes on them took over. What this taught us it to trust our instinct. The way we develop our instincts, however, is where the problem lies.

The Problem With Instincts

The trouble with instincts is that we develop them at a very early stage in our lives when our parents become our role models without us even realizing it. It follows, then, that a man who has an abusive mother is very likely to look for a partner who is also abusive in some way, not because he thinks he deserves this kind of behavior, but because this is the only kind of love he knows. While this example may be a little over the top, it serves to explain why we fall for people who we might logically recognize as bad for us, but still find irresistible because they feel familiar somehow.

This is also the psychological explanation to why we keep making the same mistakes, following the same wrong patterns in our romantic relationships despite our best efforts to break away from them, or without us ever realizing they even exist.

Watch this enlightening video by The School Of Life which explains everything.

The idea is not to blame everything on ourselves and give up on the hope of finding true love. It is more about knowing ourselves and our needs and limitations, so as to make better decisions when choosing our partners from now on.

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Thursday, 13 April 2017

We Date The Wrong People Because Of This Reason

Don’t worry if you’re always asking yourself the reason why you seem to fall for the wrong person every time. It happens to every person who has submerged their entire self into the dating pool instead of just dipping their feet. You are not alone because a lot more people also feel that they always date the wrong people.

Why Do We Always Fall For Or Date The Wrong Person?

Obviously, we do not fall for every person that comes our way. This is because we already have set traits and characters in our heads for people that we will give our hearts to. When you think about these traits, you would probably think of the usual ones like being kind, having great hair, being intelligent, and so on. We may not be conscious of it, but most of our lists are actually far from what we imagine.

We Unconsciously Fall For The Bad Apples

It would be wonderful to fall for someone who has all the positive traits in the world but, somehow, we consider them as boring or we only see people with positive traits as friends. So, why on earth can’t we fall for the good ones?

According to psychology, we’re not exactly looking for our prince or princess charming. We’re looking for people who are familiar to us. What does this mean? It, primarily, has something to do with our idea of love. We don’t learn about love from school. We learn it from home. We get our perception of how to love someone from our parents.

If our parents had a rocky relationship while we were growing up, we might pattern the same kind of relationship as we become adults. But, why would we want to pattern something that was not healthy? It is because the love factor was present in our parents’ relationship despite it being toxic. Our parents’ situation could have been far from ideal, but the same situation can give us a comforting feeling.

What To Do If You Date The Wrong People

When you’ve identified that you date the wrong people, you have to stop and think about who you want to end up with. Being conscious and aware of the characteristics you would like in a person, will help guide you. It’ll be easier said than done, but if you persist, you will sooner see an improvement in your dating life.

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Monday, 10 April 2017

Breakup Time: This Is The Day You’re Most Likely To Get Dumped

While it’s not easy to predict life and put everything into statistics, the findings of Facebook statisticians have established the one day of the year when you should probably lock yourself in a room and avoid all contact with your partner, as it’s the day you’re most likely to get dumped.

Relax, You’ve Still Got Loads Of Time Before You Get Dumped

Lucky for you, this year’s Breakup Day is still far ahead. The actual date to fear is the 11th of December, just two weeks before Christmas. Here are some of the most probable reasons why people decide to “have the talk” on this day.

The Reasons You Might Get Dumped On The 11th Of December

First of all, the run-up to Christmas can be a heavily emotional time. We all think about spending time with the people we love and when there’s something that we feel may be off about our partner, we are more likely to end things more spontaneously.

Then, there are practical issues to consider, like the large amounts of money we spend during the holidays. A person who’s unsure that their partner is worth keeping might be tempted to finish things and save the money spent on gifts, Christmas markets and nights out.

A third reason why a person might get dumped just 2 weeks before Christmas is that, well, who would break up with someone at actual Christmas? Strange as it may sound, it actually makes sense if you think about it. If you’re ready to drop the “b” word, you aren’t going to be a monster and do it at Christmas, are you?

Finally, one of the most serious breakup reasons on this date is the unwillingness to introduce a partner to our family. If there is one time of the year that’s full of family gatherings and large family dinners, that’s Christmas. When you’re unsure about keeping your partner, though, this is also a stressful time because you will have to decide whether you want to do it or not. In the latter case, you’re most likely to end the relationship too.

Thankfully, we’ve still got 8 months to go, so if you made it through this Christmas unscathed, you are one of the lucky ones. Enjoy your time, but also be aware of the date you’re most likely to get dumped.

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Thursday, 6 April 2017

Still Can’t Forgive Your Ex? This Is Why

If it’s been some time since you either broke up or gotten a divorce but still feel great resentment and pain over her, there must be a reason you feel this way. Here are some of the explanations as to why you still can’t forgive your ex.

The Obvious And Less Obvious Reasons Why You Can’t Forgive Your Ex

Some of the reasons you still experience that awfully sour feeling in your stomach when you think of your ex may be expected, while others are not always obvious. Let’s examine them one by one, and you can decide for yourself.

You’re Not Over Her Yet

This one is a no-brainer really. If the decision to stop being together was not yours but completely hers, there is a great chance you still fancy her physically, and so you have not fallen out of love. It’s a tough one, but you need to keep the faith: another woman will soon come along if you let her.

Your Ego Has Taken A Blow

This is a very common case when the cause for a break-up is a 3rd person. In the event you have been cheated on, there is great chance that you have not just had your heart broken, but your ego wounded as well. Try not to think of it as your loss though, but hers. When you learn to appreciate all you can give to a relationship, you will realize it is ultimately her who spoilt her chances of being with a decent guy like you. To help you get over the pain, remember that very often the guy with whom women cheat on their partner is not half as good as the partner.

You Think This Is Revenge

Sounds a bit strange, but often we hesitate to let go of our anger because we feel our ex does not deserve it. Why should she be forgiven when she hurt you so bad? You think that by keeping the bitterness alive, you somehow avenge her for breaking your heart. In reality, you are just torturing yourself. Chances are that she won’t even know or care about how you feel.

Your Anger Attaches You To Her

They say hate and love are two sides of the same coin, and in some cases it is true. As love is an intense and forceful feeling, so is hate a profound emotion that can attach us to people. By holding on to your rage, you hold on to what you know: having strong feelings for her. This time, though, the attachment is one-sided and only keeping you from moving on with your life.

The moment you decide to let go of your anger and forgive your ex, you will be a man renewed. Holding on to a negative feeling only serves to give us the illusion of having some sort of connection with a person from whom we need to keep a distance if we are to find happiness again.

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Monday, 3 April 2017

Is Your Partner Cheating On You? This Reveals All

Almost all of us have, at some time or other in our lives, either fallen victim to cheating or been the one who did the dirty on a partner – or both. In an ideal world, there’d be no cheating or worrying that your partner is being disloyal at all. But since we don’t live in an ideal world, it’s interesting to study the findings of a U.S survey on infidelity.

Ever Been Disloyal To Your Partner? You’re Not Alone

According to a recent survey by international Internet-based market research firm, YouGov, almost one out of five people asked said they had been unfaithful to their partner at some point in their lives.

The Survey

The survey was conducted on a sample of 1,000 Americans over 18 years old and asked them about their dating patterns, their past relationship experience and their preferences regarding relationships.

The Findings

According to the research, there is a clear sign that men think about cheating more than women do. To be more precise, out of those asked, 41% of male participants admitted to having thought about cheating on their partners. On the other hand, it seems that women are less probably to make such thoughts, with only 28% of them admitting that they had thought about doing the deed.

But what about actually doing it? Things are quite different here, as one fifth of both men and women have engaged in such an activity (21% for men and 19% for women).

Differences In Views

When it comes to defining cheating, it seems men and women are at odds. Both agree that sleeping with someone else constitutes cheating, of course, but women see other things as cheating too.

For example, while less than 70% of men view kissing a stranger as cheating, almost 80% of women do. As for exchanging naughty messages with someone, women draw the line with almost 75% of them considering it as cheating, and men being less strict about it (less than 60%).

Women also seem to be more sentimental and men more practical about cheating, with 56% the former branding an emotional (rather than physical) relationship with someone as being unfaithful, while only 38% of the latter see a platonic relationship as cheating.

Regardless of trends, numbers and data, the best idea to avoid being hurt or hurting others is to choose your partner wisely, making sure they are someone you love and admire enough so as not to want to cheat on them in the first place.

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