Monday, 28 August 2017

To Be More Attractive, Science Says You Should Do These Things

Who wouldn’t want to be more attractive? Even people with great confidence would certainly not mind becoming even more irresistible to those around them. If you think attractiveness and sex appeal are only things you’re born with and that it’s impossible to be more attractive, science begs to differ.

Simple Things We Can All Do To Be More Attractive

According to science, there are some very simple and absolutely feasible things we can all do to boost our appeal to others and feel better. And no, we promise plastic surgery is not included.

#1. Smile More

It’s true, showing your pearly whites is a sure-fire way to be more attractive. It has been found that a genuine grin can compensate even for one’s less charming features by transmitting positive vibes and making those around us feel our friendly energy. Visit your dentist regularly, don’t forget to floss, and smile with your whole heart.

#2. Get A Dog

While we’re not suggesting that you get one solely for the purpose of being more attractive, if you already have one or if you’re considering getting one, you should know that owning a dog is regarded as a sign you’re loving, caring, responsible, and nurturing. Take Max for as many walks as his heart desires, and make effortless conversation with ladies who will either have their own best four-legged friend with them, or who’ll simply admire your dedication. A survey from the University of Nevada actually found that 50% of the women participants judged a date based on how he treated his pet, and 35% of them said they were more attracted to a man who owned one. Interestingly enough, 22% percent of men said they had used their pet to attract a mate.

#3. Make Meaningful Conversation

Even though the general rule is to not get into terribly deep conversation from the first moment you meet someone who tickles your fancy, there is a line to how much small talk you should make. If your approach only focuses on trivial matters, there is the risk of boring your object of desire and making her think you’re shallow. Instead, you should throw some deeper questions into the mix, as a way to connect with her better. Don’t overdo it though, or you might overwhelm her. (Read here about how you should talk to a woman).

#4. Be Less Stressed Out

The fourth thing a guy can do to appear more attractive is to chill out a little. According to a study titled ’Low stress levels increase male attractiveness to women’, conducted by the  University of Abertay Dundee, Scotland and published in Proceedings of the Royal Society B journal, men with low stress levels are more attractive to women than stressed-out guys. Dr. Fhionna Moore, a psychology lecturer at Abertay University who led the study, told The Indian Express: “ The most interesting finding was that women preferred the faces of men with cues to low stress, but didn’t express preferences for cues to testosterone. This is contrary to previous research and shows that stress may play an important role in female mate choice”.

#5. Be Funny

There is no doubt that having a good sense of humor serves someone on many levels in life. As turns out, it has been scientifically proven that being funny is also a weapon of attraction, as people tend to see those with a sense of humor as better companions, more able to face important issues in a positive way, and as anthropologist Gil Greengross points out on Psychology Today : “”The effect of a great sense of humor on women’s attractions might be partially explained by the fact that funny people are considered to be more social and more intelligent, things that women seek in a mate.”

#6. Hang Out With Friends

Another great hack to make yourself appear more attractive is to surround yourself with friends. Research carried out by the University of California showed people rating pictures of people in a group as more attractive than people who were alone. Why does this happen,m though? Evidently, we tend to “average out” faces in a group, thus making even those who are less attractive gain attraction points.

If you’re wondering why it’s good to have an ‘average’ face, science also has an answer.  “Average faces are more attractive, likely due to the averaging out of unattractive idiosyncrasies,” psychological scientist Drew Walker of California University, San Diego explains. “Perhaps it’s like Tolstoy’s families: Beautiful people are all alike, but every unattractive person is unattractive in their own way.”

All in all, if you want to be more attractive you should chill and smile more, make sure you’re surrounded with friends who you will joke and take your dog for a walk with, and don’t make too much small talk when you meet the girl of your dreams.

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Thursday, 24 August 2017

These Texting Habits Can Make You Miserable

In a world that moves so fast and relies so much on technology, it is only natural that we have become dependent on our phones for the greatest part of our communication with others – even our partners. However, the great advantages that our mobile phones provide us with go hand in hand with new habits and perceptions that might even be the root of arguments. Is it possible that your texting habits are cause for misunderstandings with your partner?

How Some Texting Habits Can Become The Root Of Problems

At school, our teachers used the fun example of “Let’s eat, Grandma” versus “Let’s eat Grandma” to illustrate how a missing comma could turn us into cannibals. This goes to show how written speech can be riddled with causes for misunderstanding.  Punctuation, however, is just one of our bad texting habits; there is worse.

Ignoring Your Partner’s Texts

Is your partner sending you texts you are too bored to reply to? Are you too busy having fun with your mates to tell your girlfriend that you love her too? If she’s texting you non-stop when you’re out, perhaps you should let her know it’s bothering you. But ignoring a person’s texts is rude and nasty.

Giving One-Word Replies

Unless you’re answering to one-word questions, one-word replies can be viewed as your way to end a conversation, or as a sign that you’re annoyed by something. If you genuinely want to have a nice conversation with your partner, don’t kill things off with curt replies.

Thinking All Your Jokes Are Getting Across

For regular text message users, it is a given that a message conversation has its limitations. You may think that your sarcasm comes across to your partner, but the fact he/she can’t see your smiling face as you crack that joke may make it far less obvious. Thank God for emojis and “lols”. Use them wisely.


The reason for many a late-night argument, drinking and texting are a super dangerous combination. Make sure you limit your drunken confessions and argument-picking. Even better, keep your mobile in your pocket when you’re on the booze.

Having Serious Conversations Via Text

Even though texting is convenient and efficient up to a point, it is wrong – even cowardly – to resort to texting if there are important issues to discuss. Yes, you can arrange a meeting via text, but no, you can’t tell your partner that you want to have a baby if you’re not face-to-face.

To cut a long story short, although text messages are a great way to keep in touch with people throughout the day, there is a certain Savoir Vivre about them that we all need to follow when it comes to our texting habits.

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Monday, 21 August 2017

Mysterious Transference: The Unconscious Process That Affects Our Relationships

How do we judge people? What affects our response to certain behaviors coming from our partners? Are we always aware of the decisions we make and the things underlying our feelings towards certain people and their personalities? Oftentimes, our reactions and feelings are affected by a phenomenon that modern psychology calls transference.

What Is Transference?

First described by the father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, transference is psychological a phenomenon in which there is an unconscious redirection of feelings from one person to another.  In other words, childhood memories – both negative and positive – may have a huge impact on how we deal with current situations in ways we may be oblivious to.

The Impact Transference Has On Our Personal Lives

Because it is very frequently a subconscious phenomenon, transference can basically underlie all our decisions and reactions even when we don’t realize it. For instance, if our parents rarely praised us for anything, we may react badly to a partner’s lack of praise for some accomplishment we consider to be very important, like a job promotion or a shirt we ironed very well. Our reaction may seem out of proportion, and our partner may think we are being paranoid for feeling mad at them for neglecting to congratulate us on it, but in our minds they are failing us just like our parents did decades ago.

How Can We Improve Things?

In a recent School Of Life video, a guy feels hurt and annoyed at his girlfriend for reasons seemingly inexplicable, but in reality, his reaction is triggered by a childhood experience of rejection. As the video goes on to an end, the girl lovingly approaches her boyfriend and tries to patiently elicit the real reason for his reaction. He, on the other hand, honestly explains how he was hurt by a similar situation in the past. Together, they find a way to overcome the misunderstanding and be happy.

Finishing off the video, famous philosopher and School of Life founder Alain De Botton concludes, “We don’t need people to be normal: we just need them to be able to explain their abnormalities in good time, with kindness and humility”. Therefore, communication is once again the key to overcoming psychological phenomena so common yet hurtful as transference.

The School Of Life video on Transference: 

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Thursday, 17 August 2017

AsianDate: This Is What People Want From A Partner In 2017.

When we think about the kind of person we’d like to date, a number of traits come to mind. We want them to be attractive enough to make our heart race, we want them to have a good sense of humor so as to guarantee a happy life, we want them to have a good job that will offer our future home financial stability, we want them to be faithful, honest, open-minded, tender… but what if you had to choose just one single characteristic? A new survey asked this exact question, and AsianDate brings you the answer.

AsianDate Describes The One Thing Most People Want From Their Dating Partner

A brand new survey, presented in a Business Insider article, asked no less than 400,000 singles about the thing they consider to be the most important trait for a long-term partner. The results were indisputable.

A staggering 82% of women and a 70% of men rated kindness as their number one desirable trait when looking for a long-term partner, leaving behind characteristics that might have been expected to win, such as sexual attraction, emotional connection, even moral values.

Of course, kindness was not the only desirable trait. Next on the list for men were sexual compatibility and emotional connection, while ladies placed emotional connection and moral values after kindness – perhaps appearing to be more emotional than men.

Kind Is Good For The Heart In More Than One Ways

And if you need even more proof that kindness is the key to happiness, the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation can provide some: “Acts of kindness create emotional warmth, which releases a hormone known as oxytocin. Oxytocin causes the release of a chemical called nitric oxide, which dilates the blood vessels. This reduces blood pressure and, therefore, oxytocin is known as a ‘cardioprotective’ hormone. It protects the heart by lowering blood pressure.” There you have it. Being nice is also good for your health.

To put it in a nutshell, our advice at AsianDate is that whether you want to keep your heart in good shape or you want to steal your ideal partner’s heart for the long haul, the best way to go about life is to practice acts of love and kindness. As it turns out, it’s the one thing that can make you irresistible above all else.

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Monday, 14 August 2017

Easiest Tips For Learning How To Talk To A Woman

“Well begun is half done”, says an old proverb, and it is really the case with dating too. Very frequently, the hardest step to make is to approach the object of our desire, for fear of being rejected, or even worse, looking like a fool. If you’re not quite sure how to talk to a woman, read on.

How You Should Talk To A Woman

As with every daunting task, when you want to approach a lady it is best to have a plan. And we mean that in the coolest, least creepy way possible, of course. To be most successful, your plan should include a before, during, and after course of action.

Before You Talk To A Woman

The most important thing to do before you actually go up to a girl is to not fill yourself with expectations and not to blow the whole thing out of proportion. If your realistic expectation is to have a nice, fun chat, how bad can it be? Get in the right frame of mind, where you don’t make a big fuss out of a nice chat, and you will be a lot more relaxed. A good idea to exercise talking to a girl you like is to practice talking to people you don’t know before. For example, you can ask the time from a stranger, or pay some random person a compliment without expecting to get anything out of it. Just to get in the zone, like athletes do before a game. Just to see that talking to strangers is no biggie.

Making Interesting Conversation

One of the cleverest things to do is to make the conversation as natural as possible. This is why you a) approach her in a way that’s not threatening, and b) adjust what you say to the current situation. You can’t say the same thing to a lady you meet at the gym and a lady you meet at the bar. Here are some examples.

If you’re both walking your dogs at the park, approach her and let your dogs play with each other before you say something like “My dog seems to like you.” Keep things positive and ask her about her dog too. Ladies love a guy with a pet, so it’s a good start when she meets you with yours. Focus on that. You may end up arranging a joint walk the next day.

If you see a fit lady working out at the same gym as you, make sure to finish your workout at the same time as her, and then smile at her from wherever you are. Find a good chance to stand close to her. If she’s a regular, you can say “I see you work out here a lot. Are you an athlete?” or, if she’s a first-timer “Hey, are you new here? I don’t believe I’ve seen you before”. You can strike up a conversation about her favorite kind of workout or her fav trainer – you can jump at the chance to ask her to grab a coffee together after your next workout if she seems into you.

In the event you meet at some social gathering (like a wedding or some friend’s party), it is possible she’ll be part of a larger company. Don’t be intimidated – this may be to your advantage, as it will be simpler to get into the conversation. Introduce yourself to everyone and ask who they know from the party/ wedding. Pay extra attention to her, and grab the chance to stand close to her and continue the conversation more privately.

If you meet at a coffee shop or library, you can ask her what she is listening to or reading, or if you know something about what she’s reading (or listening to), you may start a conversation about it.

If you meet online, it’s a good idea to study her profile a little before you talk to her – not just look at her photos. Find the most interesting thing about her, from her job to one of her hobbies or her place of origin, and comment on it after you briefly introduce yourself.

After You Talk To A Woman

So, now you have exchanged a few words, do you still think she’s dating material? If you don’t think she’s interesting, just say “it was nice meeting you” and make an exit. But if you still think she’s someone you want to date and get to know better, go for it. Tell her how you enjoyed talking to her and that you’d like to see her again. You can write your phone number on a piece of paper and hand it to her, thus dropping the ball at her court, or you can directly ask for her phone number so you can “grab a coffee soon”.

You should not expect to be successful with everyone you meet, but as you learn how to talk to a woman, it will seem easier every time. The main things to remember are to be as natural as possible, to be relevant to the place and time of your acquaintance, to be polite and not pushy, and to have fun with it.

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Thursday, 10 August 2017

These Are Probably The Funniest And Worst Online Dating Icebreakers Ever

Let’s agree that breaking the ice when you want to chat a lady you meet online for the first time is not the easiest thing. You need to be quick, inventive, clever, respectful, funny and seductive, all at once. Sometimes inspiration hits you and you come up with the most successful online dating icebreakers. Other times, you come up with lines like the ones we feature in this article.

These Online Dating Icebreakers Will Make You Cringe And Laugh                                                 

Fun site tickld recently featured some super-fun icebreakers, and they made us laugh so hard that we just had to share them with you. Enjoy – and maybe even learn something from them.

Kudos to this guy for his inventiveness. Can’t believe the girl didn’t see it coming, though.

Online dating icebreakers need to be inventive.


This guy needs to re-think his chat-up line. It doesn’t seem to be going according to plan.

For the prospective boyfriends who are feeling adventurous, this girl puts them through their paces.

Some online dating icebreakers are not for the faint-hearted.

Sometimes a simple game of Connect4 may be one of the most effective online dating icebreakers one can think of.

Connect4 may be one of the best online dating icebreakers.

Kind of hard to believe, but this weird truth or dare game actually worked for these two.

One of the worst online dating icebreakers that actually worked.

This girl wanted to be light and breezy, but little did she know she’d come across a case of a true comedian, or an over-sharing dude.

Is this one of the funny online dating icebreakers?

A case of pun very much intended. We’ll never find out if it was met with success, unfortunately (but we can make a guess).

Some online dating icebreakers are based on a pun.

And this funny pun-lover is either the same guy as before or his soulmate that’s somewhere out there. They really should meet.

Some online dating icebreakers are based on funny puns.

On the exact opposite side of the spectrum, we find the guy who is a little too matter-of-facty for online flirting.When being too matter-of-fact isn't helping with online dating icebreakers.Last but not least, a guy who used his inventiveness, humor, and ability to make puns altogether, to trick a lady into a naughty chat. It could go either way, but she laughed.

One of the most daring online dating icebreakers.

Most of these daring, inventive, funny, or just pure shocking online dating icebreakers are lines we’d never advise you to use. Some were met with laughter. others with disgust. This just goes to show that with flirting and love it’s all a matter of the right moment and the right person. And it’s exactly why one shouldn’t lose faith -there’s someone out there who will appreciate our bad jokes and awkward lines.

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Monday, 7 August 2017

There Is A Perfect Time To Date Online, Find Out When And Why

Even though there is no right or wrong period to flirt, and the chance to meet your S.O should never go to waste, it seems that when it comes to online dating, there is literally no time like the present. So, if you are looking to date online, waste no time. Here’s why.

August Is The Perfect Time To Date Online

According to a survey carried out by AskMen, women are more likely to respond to online flirt at the end of summer. Yep, you got that right. The best time to date online is now.

The survey that was carried on a sample of 40 million users revealed that July and August are the most popular times of the year to meet women on online dating sites, second only to October – the so-called “cuffing season”.

The Facts You Need To Know

To be more precise, the survey found that online users are an impressive 21% more active during July and August than they are in May and June. Of course, the more active your fellow users are, the more possible it is for you to find that certain someone among them.

Another interesting finding is that many of the users who have taken a break from online dating decide to make a comeback in July and August. The only busiest time for those returning to the online dating scene is January, what with all the New Year’s resolutions. It is also the peak month for those trying out online dating for the first time, with a 13% rise in July and a 6% rise in August compared to June.

And it’s not only the fact they sign up more during these late summer months; women are also a lot more flirty and responsive then. In fact, it was found that you are in with 10% more chances to get a response from women in August.

So, you are 18% more like to get a wink from the girl of your dreams, 17% more likely to be chatted up by her, and 21% more likely to receive a message from her.

If you are tired of being a singleton and are suddenly feeling the urge to get all coupled up in order to end the summer on a high, it seems that you really aren’t the only one. Don’t lose the chance to date online ASAP –  the time is exactly right.

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Thursday, 3 August 2017

Most Important Advice For Older Men Who Are Dating Online

Some people have been fortunate enough to meet their better half early on in their lives, to make a family and grow old and gray together. Others, however, may not have been so lucky in life, or they may have chosen not to compromise with a partner that wasn’t right for them. This is why so many people are turning to online dating today. This advice for older men looking for love online will make their search more efficient.

What Older Men Using Online Dating Platforms Should Know

Are you thinking about using an online dating platform but aren’t sure how to do it right? Are you hesitant, fearing it will be a fruitless effort that will disappoint you? Do you think you may be too old for this sort of thing? Have no fear; these dating tips will help you overcome your worries and doubts.

#1. Study her profile

Yes, you like her photograph, but looks aren’t the only thing that matters, as you know. You need to have something to talk about. Plus, women like to feel your attention. So, find 1-2 things you may consider interesting or that you have in common – like a hobby you enjoy or would like to try – and mention it when you talk to her.

#2. Don’t just say “hi” on your first message

Instead, introduce yourself properly. Tell your prospective partner who you are (no details needed to begin with), but a few things about you –your name, where you are from and something you want to know about her. Like, “Hello, my name is X, I’m from Y. I noticed how beautiful you are and also that you also love the theatre. I am a big theatre fan too. What was the last play you saw?” Asking a lady a question she can easily answer, that isn’t too personal, is a good conversation starter.

#3. Make her feel safe

Safety is very important to women, and the fact you are sitting behind a computer could make her doubt that you are being honest about your intentions and who you really are. The best way to make her feel safe is to share a little detail about your life, your job, where you live or if you’ve been married before, for example. You don’t need to give a full bio, but some detail acts as reassurance.

#4. Pay attention to her

Be curious, but not nosy. Ask her about herself but be careful not to make her feel uncomfortable. The best way for her to open up is if you share something about you first. For example, you could say “I have a son who’s 18 years old. Do you have any children?” If you feel a topic is making her feel bad, change the subject immediately and apologize if you inadvertently cause offense.

#5. Arrange your first date

Don’t let the chat drag on and on for too long. If you have great online communication, make an IRL date somewhere safe and interesting. A coffee date is a popular choice because it is casual and fuss-free, but it may seem a little drab. You can make it a walk in the park, a bookstore if you both love books, or the theatre, a museum, a gallery – anything you both enjoy.

Who says older men can’t flirt online? Flirting, love, and companionship are ageless. The basic thing to remember as you go about finding love on an online dating platform is to be yourself, leave your date some space, and be genuinely interested.

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